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This world is full of lies. The Not On My Watch Podcast tells the truth and talks about the real issues in the family and in the church. Through study of Scripture, research, and humor, Jeff and Rochelle boldly declare an exit to mediocrity and share how to live authentic lives that challenge and inspire listeners. Topics you will hear on this podcast include how to build a God-honoring and enjoyable marriage, raising Christian kids in a morally corrupt world, discerning humanism from the truth of the Bible, the challenges facing church leaders in a divided world, how God is using both men and women to make an impact in the world today, and much more!
Episodes

Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
The Body Keeps the Score
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
The body always catches up! Despite our best efforts to grind it out or to suppress traumatic events, our physical bodies eventually reveal the hidden impact of stress. In a deeply personal episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss in practical terms what it means for the body to keep the score. Prompted by a previous article written by Rochelle on the topic, this episode dives into more detail about an issue that few people discuss but many are wrestling with. Take a listen!
Show Notes:
- Rochelle’s Article: notonmywatch.co/the-body-keeps-the-score/
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
Silence, The Enemy of Healing
Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
Alarmingly, there is a growing trend among people, groups, and even organizations to silence others who may disagree with them. In some cases, this behavior is used in an attempt to cover up abuse or misconduct. Oftentimes, these tactics are employed in such subtle ways that those who experience their effects are rendered powerless in the moment. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss some of the methods in which people are silenced, why they are silenced, and what to do about it. Listen in, as talking about these issues is one of the ways healing can occur. Silence is NEVER the preferable option, even though others will pressure you to think it is.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Wednesday Jan 08, 2025
The Year of Simplicity
Wednesday Jan 08, 2025
Wednesday Jan 08, 2025
With the arrival of each new year there is an almost unhesitating acceptance of the reality that our world will continue to grow more complicated. New technologies, discoveries, and much more content than you and I could ever consume leave us feeling overwhelmed with the growing complexity of our world. In too many cases, the Church has surrendered to this unfortunate tendency. But what if Jesus is calling His Bride to something different in 2025? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss what it looks like for God’s people to pursue a life of simplicity. Jesus didn’t promise to build His MACHINE. He promised to build His Church. And THIS Church is far less complicated than we have often made it. Take a listen!
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Tuesday Oct 29, 2024
Start Talking: Talk To Your Kids About Politics
Tuesday Oct 29, 2024
Tuesday Oct 29, 2024
We’ve all heard it! Especially during this time of year. “People need to stop being so political!” What if we as parents need to start being MORE political? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle make the biblical case for why every parent needs to talk to their kids about politics. As pleasant as it sounds, you will not find the case for an apolitical stance in Scripture. If we want to equip our kids to think deeply about important issues impacting their life, we will help them to cultivate a biblical worldview toward politics. Take a listen!
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Monday Oct 21, 2024
Start Talking: Talk About Your Faith
Monday Oct 21, 2024
Monday Oct 21, 2024
It’s time for parents to start talking! In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the implications of the staggering statistic that 43% of parents NEVER talk to their kids about their faith. But all is not lost, because parents can reverse this trend by taking some things seriously. Jeff and Rochelle identify key components that must be present between parent and child if the faith of one generation is to be passed on to the next. This cannot be ignored. Silence is not the answer!
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Monday Sep 16, 2024
What We’ve Learned from Being Homeless
Monday Sep 16, 2024
Monday Sep 16, 2024
Some lessons become strikingly clear when you are placed in a position for which you have no other option other than to experience them in tangible ways. These lessons certainly fall into that category! In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss what they have learned from experiencing homelessness. While they still have a roof over their head, Jeff and Rochelle discuss their experience without one church to call their home. Listen in, as every person who cares about the local church needs to look through the lens of a visitor.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Thursday Sep 05, 2024
No Regrets: Waiting Until High School to Give Our Daughter a Cell Phone
Thursday Sep 05, 2024
Thursday Sep 05, 2024
The harm that cell phones inflict on this next generation is well documented, causing many parents to wish they had waited. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle give a glimpse of what life is like with another cell phone user in the house. Listen in, as they discuss their “no regrets” decision to delay cell phone usage and the results that this one choice can have on the home and the health of your child.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Wednesday Aug 14, 2024
Wednesday Aug 14, 2024
The world we live in is harshest to those most vulnerable among us, our kids. So how do we shepherd the hearts of our children when they are increasingly surrounded by wolves? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle continue their “No Regrets” series as they discuss the monumental task of shepherding our children as they navigate an increasingly dangerous situation. Tune in, as they discuss courageous actions every parent must be willing to take if they are to cultivate a spiritual environment where their children can thrive.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Wednesday Jul 24, 2024
No Regrets: Standing for Our Convictions Even Though We’ve Paid the Price REVISITED
Wednesday Jul 24, 2024
Wednesday Jul 24, 2024
Standing for the truth is never easy and often comes with a price. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle continue their discussion of what will often happen to a person who decides to stand for godly convictions. Since one episode is not sufficient to cover this topic and since many people are experiencing this reality in greater measure, Jeff and Rochelle discuss three surprising responses someone of conviction will often experience. Listen in to this key episode, so that you can navigate the increasing hostility of our age.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/
- Daniel 7:25 KJV: “And he shall speak great words against the most High, and shall wear out the saints of the most High…”

Wednesday Jul 17, 2024
Exciting Ministry and Family Update!
Wednesday Jul 17, 2024
Wednesday Jul 17, 2024
In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle share some very exciting news as they give an update about the ministry and their family. Listen in as they share details that have been in the works and how you can be involved. As doors open into a new season of increased effectiveness, the Not On My Watch message will continue to impact families, homes, churches, schools, politics, and everywhere God continues to open the door. Exciting days are ahead!
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/
- Purchase your ticket for the Right to Life of Southwest Indiana Annual Banquet: https://rtlswin.org/banquet2024/