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This world is full of lies. The Not On My Watch Podcast tells the truth and talks about the real issues in the family and in the church. Through study of Scripture, research, and humor, Jeff and Rochelle boldly declare an exit to mediocrity and share how to live authentic lives that challenge and inspire listeners. Topics you will hear on this podcast include how to build a God-honoring and enjoyable marriage, raising Christian kids in a morally corrupt world, discerning humanism from the truth of the Bible, the challenges facing church leaders in a divided world, how God is using both men and women to make an impact in the world today, and much more!
Episodes

Monday Jul 01, 2024
No Regrets: Standing for Our Convictions Even Though We’ve Paid the Price
Monday Jul 01, 2024
Monday Jul 01, 2024
Being a person of conviction requires the willingness to continue to stand even when others don’t. In part two of their “No Regrets” series, Jeff and Rochelle discuss how standing for their convictions even when they’ve paid the price is NEVER a decision they will regret. Standing for what right is never popular nor easy but it is ALWAYS the path that followers of Christ must take. In our world of rising abuse and increased dehumanization of people, the Church must awaken to the fact that they can no longer remain seated. It’s time to stand, even if that attracts unfair treatment from those you considered friends.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
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Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
No Regrets: Decisions We've Made That We've Never Regretted
Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
In our quick-fix culture we are constantly on the lookout for the silver bullet that will give us the immediate results we’re looking for. Whether it’s our health, parenting, marriage, or finances, we are in a desperate search for instant outcomes. The reality is that our lives reflect COUNTLESS decisions that have had a cumulative impact. In this new series called, “No Regrets” Jeff and Rochelle discuss key decisions that have profoundly impacted their lives forever. Listen in as they discuss how you can make the same kind of “no regrets” decisions, forever shaping the course of your life.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
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- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
What To Do About A 4% Biblical Worldview
Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
For the past 15 years, researchers and ministry leaders have been warning of the reality of a 4% Biblical worldview facing the next generation if nothing is done to reverse course. Well, that time has come, and this is the current reality facing American Christianity. What is the cause? Is this emerging generation simply less interested in spiritual matters? The answer may surprise you! In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss this troubling reality but assert that there is hope and even a solution that could reverse these numbers. All is not lost!
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
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- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/
- Episode 91: “The Tripod of Your Kid’s Life” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z5US3muzSs4

Wednesday May 29, 2024
The War On Parents
Wednesday May 29, 2024
Wednesday May 29, 2024
The war on parents is real! From strategic efforts to remove traditional family language from common use, the outsourcing of parental responsibility to the “professionals”, to the crumbling of parental consent in a variety of arenas, moms and dads find themselves in the crosshairs of a significant spiritual battle. However, we are not helpless. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the specifics of this war and what parents must do to ensure the safety and spiritual health of their children. We must be willing to fight! Inaction is not an option.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/
- Episode #109: “Can Kids Make Their Own Health Decisions?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0V_fY0hLzIM

Wednesday May 15, 2024
My High School Football Coach and Some Lessons Learned
Wednesday May 15, 2024
Wednesday May 15, 2024
During a recent ministry trip, Jeff was surprised to be able to connect with his high school football coach from twenty-five years ago! In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the impact of that encounter and what every next generation influencer can learn from this legendary coach. Great leaders and mentors understand that influence has no expiration date! The same can be true with you.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
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- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/
- “What My Coach Taught Me About Training the Next Generation”: https://notonmywatch.co/what-my-coach-taught-me-about-training-the-next-generation/

Wednesday May 08, 2024
Poison or Fruit…You Choose
Wednesday May 08, 2024
Wednesday May 08, 2024
The words we speak are never neutral, benign, or harmless rendering the rhyme we learned in kindergarten false. “Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me!” Not only can words hurt us, but what comes from our mouth has the potential to kill or to give life. Scripture goes so far as to identify our words as either poison or fruit. The good news is that we get to choose which we will use in our everyday interactions with others. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle offer insight and personal experience with both types of words and how we can be people who consistently choose to give life.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
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- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Wednesday May 01, 2024
Why I’m STILL Not A Swiftie
Wednesday May 01, 2024
Wednesday May 01, 2024
Taylor Swift has once again captured the headlines with her extremely popular new album called, “The Tortured Poets Department.” More than just an entertainer or musician, Swift has become a cultural icon, gaining a cult following. How are parents, grandparents, and next generation influencers supposed to respond to her recent release? Is there merit to these concerns or do they just reflect judgmental conservative Christians’ attitude toward this popular entertainer? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle avoid engaging in a “ranty” discussion and address legitimate concerns that every person who cares about the next generation should consider.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/
- Episode #82: “Why I Won’t Become A Swiftie”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L7wNXoRoSTs&t=18s

Wednesday Apr 24, 2024
An 8th Grader Without A Cell Phone?
Wednesday Apr 24, 2024
Wednesday Apr 24, 2024
We often discuss the research of cell phone usage among our kids. However, for this episode, we wanted to hear what a teenager had to say about this important topic. Join us, as we interview our 14-year-old daughter to talk about the positives, the negatives, and even what age SHE thinks kids should get a cell phone. Oh, and she may or may not be excited about actually getting a cell phone. Tune in as we welcome our first ever in-studio guest to the Not On My Watch Podcast to discuss her thoughts on cell phones!
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/
- Episode #62: Dare To Be Different-Why Every Kid Does Not Need A Cell Phone: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPjYZGvZrpM&t=53s

Wednesday Apr 17, 2024
How To Teach Your Kids To Pray
Wednesday Apr 17, 2024
Wednesday Apr 17, 2024
When it comes to the prayer life of our children, there is nobody more qualified to teach them than you. But how do we teach them? Where do we start? When can we find the time to do this? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle answer these very questions as they discuss how we have the incredible privilege and an urgent mandate to teach our kids how to pray. This is truly one of the greatest lifechanging gifts we can give to our children. Tune in as Jeff and Rochelle offer some very practical “how-to’s” on this topic.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
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- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Thursday Apr 11, 2024
A Safe Place in a Big Bad World
Thursday Apr 11, 2024
Thursday Apr 11, 2024
Everybody needs this one thing because the world we walk into every day is often not safe or friendly. When a person lacks a safe haven, they’ll be nomads looking everywhere to fill that void. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the need for a safe place and what this type of environment even looks like. If this is a place that we NEED to return to each day, then how do we go about creating the environment for it? Find out on this episode of the Not On My Watch podcast.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
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- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/