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This world is full of lies. The Not On My Watch Podcast tells the truth and talks about the real issues in the family and in the church. Through study of Scripture, research, and humor, Jeff and Rochelle boldly declare an exit to mediocrity and share how to live authentic lives that challenge and inspire listeners. Topics you will hear on this podcast include how to build a God-honoring and enjoyable marriage, raising Christian kids in a morally corrupt world, discerning humanism from the truth of the Bible, the challenges facing church leaders in a divided world, how God is using both men and women to make an impact in the world today, and much more!
Episodes

Wednesday Apr 03, 2024
The Secret To A Happy Marriage
Wednesday Apr 03, 2024
Wednesday Apr 03, 2024
Is there really a secret to a happy marriage? Yes! And in this episode Jeff and Rochelle discuss just what that secret is. If every married couple were to genuinely pursue THIS one thing, their marriage would never be the same. No, it is not matching bracelets or tattoos…although both are discussed in this episode. Tune in to find out what this secret is because it doesn’t have to remain out of reach for you!
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
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Wednesday Mar 27, 2024
Marriage Can Be Easy and Why We Need to Let the World Know
Wednesday Mar 27, 2024
Wednesday Mar 27, 2024
You have undoubtedly heard the sentiment that marriage is hard. In fact, this thought is one of the reasons why many people are less inclined to get married. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle take some time to debunk this myth and offer an encouraging perspective that breathes fresh hope into the marriage relationship. No! Marriage does not mean that you will be caught in a never-ending cycle of hardship or difficulty. It is fun…and we want the world to know!
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
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- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/
- Episode 77: “There Arose A Generation Who Avoided Marriage”

Wednesday Mar 20, 2024
Being Parents of Kids All of the Same Gender
Wednesday Mar 20, 2024
Wednesday Mar 20, 2024
As a parent, how do you respond when others ask awkward questions about the gender of your children? Is there such a thing as gender disappointment? If so, what do we do about it? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle address what has been considered a touchy subject. However, using humor and Scripture they shed light on a topic that brings honor and value to both genders while equipping parents to navigate this potentially difficult terrain.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
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- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
How To Raise Worshipers
Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
As parents who desire to pass down a vibrant faith to our children, we are not content for them to simply be good moral citizens. How can we raise children who possess a resilient and passionate faith? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss what every parent must do and be if they are to raise worshippers who refuse to settle for the status quo of religion.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Wednesday Mar 06, 2024
How Do We Talk and Deal with Church Hurt with Kids?
Wednesday Mar 06, 2024
Wednesday Mar 06, 2024
Unfortunately, our kids are not exempt from the possibility of experiencing church hurt in some way. As much as we would like to shelter them from this harsh reality, we cannot always protect our kids from the very real pain that can occur inside the Church. How can we as parents navigate these troubling and disturbing waters so that our kids love for the Church and Jesus remains strong even in the midst of some of the most disorienting realities? Jeff and Rochelle offer three actions every parent can take to guide their children through the painful experience of church hurt so that it doesn’t define their future.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
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- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
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- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Wednesday Feb 28, 2024
Can Kids Make Their Own Health Decisions?
Wednesday Feb 28, 2024
Wednesday Feb 28, 2024
A recent trip to the pediatrician brought to light the complications of having minor children, as young as 12, that are in charge of making their own medical decisions apart from their parent’s knowledge and consent. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss how to handle this with your children and medical professionals. All parents need to be informed. Check out this episode!
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
- Connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notonmywatch.co/
- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Wednesday Feb 21, 2024
Is My Kid Going to Heaven?
Wednesday Feb 21, 2024
Wednesday Feb 21, 2024
In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the crucial question, "Is My Kid Going to Heaven?" At some point, parents and influencers of the next generation will encounter students who are committed, compliant, or combative to the Gospel. How do we respond when those we are responsible for are in one of those categories? The spiritual formation of those under our care is far too important for us to respond haphazardly. Join us as we consider the complexities of engaging the next generation, as we aim to disciple ambassadors of faith in our homes and in our churches.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
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- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Wednesday Feb 14, 2024
Tech Sense 101: Frequently Asked Questions
Wednesday Feb 14, 2024
Wednesday Feb 14, 2024
When it comes to technology and the family, questions abound! In this final episode of Tech Sense 101, Jeff and Rochelle answer some of the most common questions parents ask, seeking to provide clarity to an already overwhelming issue. Whether it’s screen time limits, the age a child should receive a cell phone, or when children should engage with social media, these FAQ’s are addressed honestly and directly.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
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- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
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- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/

Wednesday Feb 07, 2024
Tech Sense 101: Internet & Video Games
Wednesday Feb 07, 2024
Wednesday Feb 07, 2024
What are parents to do when it comes to the gravitational pull of the internet and internet-based video games such as Minecraft, Roblox, Discord, or Fortnite? Are these harmless realities that present no tangible danger? Should parents avoid this technology altogether? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the need for parents to be engaged in the online activities of their kids and the dangers to be aware of. We do not have to operate in fear, but we must be actively aware of what our children may encounter in the online world.
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/.../the-not-on-my.../id1550127745
- Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notonmywatch.co\
- Connect with us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenotonmywatch
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- Sign up for ministry updates: http://eepurl.com/iA8BmI
- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/
- A Parent’s Guide to Dealing with Fortnite: https://childmind.org/article/parents-guide-dealing-fortnite/

Friday Feb 02, 2024
There’s Still Time Left on the Clock
Friday Feb 02, 2024
Friday Feb 02, 2024
Inspired by a recent birthday trip to a college basketball game, Jeff and Rochelle share an encouraging word to all Not On My Watchers of what to do when you are backed up against insurmountable odds. When your life seems unpredictable, uncertain, and even impossible, remember that there is still time left on the clock. Now is not the time to give up! It’s not yet triple zero!
Show Notes:
- Visit our website: notonmywatch.co
- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@notonmywatchpodcast\
- Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-not-on-my-watch-podcast/id1550127745
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- Book Jeff and Rochelle to speak: https://notonmywatch.co/book-us/
- Become a financial partner of Not On My Watch: https://notonmywatch.co/give/